Stop optimizing your life and start actually living it.
I’m Jill. I help you clear out broken strategies that keep your real self hidden, so you can stop chasing your "best self" and start moving in the direction that finally feels like your life.
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Two things you should know about your "best self":
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Your "best self" is hiding underneath a ton of broken strategies that have become invisible to you.
If you keep doing "self-improvement" without first clearing these out, it's like trying to run a marathon in a Barney costume and wondering why it seems so much easier for everyone else 🦖
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Your "best self" is actually your real self, and it's already here.
Once you take off the costume, you make space for your real self to show up in your life and your body (and actually stay) .
There are three ways to begin,
which sounds most like you?
01.
“Every time I get close to choosing a direction, the goal posts seem to move”
02.
“I’ve done enough therapy to know my triggers but I can't stop being reactive in the moment”
03. “I’ve done the shadow work, but these emotions still live in my body”
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Once you stop chasing your “best self,” your real self can finally choose the direction that feels right for your life.
because you can:
Be clear about what you’re available for.
(without the fear of “letting someone down” )Be clear about what you believe.
(without hearing the echoes of your 7th grade bullies)Be clear about what you want.
(without adopting someone else’s priorities)
All of which becomes possible when your soul finally feels safe in your body.
Breaking the curse of the half-lived, phoned-in life, one person at a time—that's the mission behind this work.
If you're ready to stop trying to force your "best self" to come out,
I'm offering a 2-month intensive starting in January 2027 that clears the strategies that hide your real self across seven dimensions of your life.
Meet Jill
DESIGN THINKER + ENERGY HEALER
I thought I’d cracked the code on my real self in 2017 when I recognized my self-sabotage, got divorced, then effortlessly chose a new and improved direction for my life without having to “manifest” anything. Then it all stalled out.
With a master’s in industrial design and a lifelong obsession with astrology, I took a systemic approach to reverse-engineering the heyday that had seemed to magically appear in my life. Eight years and seven modalities later, it’s become my life’s work to spot the patterns that keep people stuck in a half-lived life.
What this ”D.I.Y. PhD” in self-improvement taught me was that the self is a place—small enough to live in your thoughts while expansive enough to be written in the stars—and for most of us, it’s a place that’s in dire need of de-cluttering.
When we work together:
